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14 sections of real coaching work. No account. No email. No cost. Just you and the work.

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Welcome

Watch your thoughts, they become words; watch your words, they become actions; watch your actions, they become habits; watch your habits, they become character; watch your character, for it becomes your destiny.

Lao Tzu

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How to use this workbook
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Work in order. Each section builds on the last. The journey is cumulative — what you uncover in Section 3 will deepen what you write in Section 9.

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Write your first thought. Don't edit yourself. The most useful answers are usually the ones that surprise you.

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Come back. Some sections are meant to be revisited. Your answers will change as you grow — that's the point.

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Be kind to yourself. This is not a test. There is no perfect way to do this work. Showing up is enough.

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Your 14-Section Journey

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01 Welcome
02 Who Am I
03 My Core Values
04 My Strengths
05 Energy Audit
06 Six Key Questions
07 Wheel of Life
08 What's Holding Me Back
09 The 5 Whys
10 Letters to Myself
11 My Commitments
12 Mission & Strategy
13 30/60/90 Check-In
14 My Dashboard

Take a breath before you begin. This section asks for honesty, not perfection. The most useful answers are often the ones that surprise you.

I am someone who… People who know me well would describe me as… I show up best when… I struggle most when… The version of myself I most want to grow into is…
Step 1 — Select your values

Select all that resonate — aim for 10–20, then you'll narrow to your top 3–5 in Step 2.

Other values not listed
Step 2 — My top 3–5 & why they matter

Your selections appear below. Focus on 3–5 non-negotiable values.

Step 3 — Where are the gaps?

How well does your current life honor your values? Where is there a gap between what you value and how you actually live?

Natural strengths

What comes naturally to you that others seem to find hard? What do people consistently come to you for?

Three peak moments — when I was at my best

Think of three moments where you were truly at your best. What strengths did each one reveal?

Moment 1
Moment 2
Moment 3
My strengths summary

"I bring value through my ability to…"

Energy givers

People, activities and environments that fill you up

Energy drains

People, activities and environments that deplete you

When do I feel most like myself? What one thing am I tolerating that is costing me the most energy? What would I do with more energy?
Based on this audit, I will protect or change…
What does your wheel shape tell you?

Which areas surprised you? Where is the biggest gap between where you are and where you want to be?

The one area I most want to focus on first is…

Approach this with self-compassion. Limiting beliefs and fears are not character flaws — they are protective stories. You don't need to attack them. Just look at them clearly, with kindness, and decide if they still serve you.

Part A — My Limiting Beliefs
1
What is the limiting belief?
Name it clearly and honestly
2
What is proof this belief is NOT true?
List evidence that challenges it
3
What empowering thought can replace it?
Write your new belief
Part B — My Fear Audit
All my fears — write freely, no editing

Fear of failure, success, judgment, being seen, change, loss…

My biggest fear is… Could I handle or recover from that outcome? How? What is the cost of letting this fear continue to run my life?
What would I do if I were not afraid? (This is your compass.)
My goal or commitment
My deep why

"At the deepest level, I want this because…"

Letter One — To My Past Self

Think of a version of yourself who needed to hear something. Write with the compassion you would show a close friend. If this brings up something unexpected — that's the work doing what it's supposed to. Stay with it.

To: Past Me
Time period:

Dear younger me,

With love, Present Me
Letter Two — From My Future Self

Close your eyes. Imagine yourself 3 years from now — you have done the work. Write to your present self from that place.

From: Future Me
Date:

Dear ,

With love and pride, Future Me

Do not think that what is hard for you to master is humanly impossible; but if a thing is humanly possible, consider it to be within your reach.

Marcus Aurelius — Meditations
Intrinsic Motivation

Driven from within — by curiosity, purpose, values, or the joy of growth. Deeply sustaining.

e.g. Learning to grow · Living by your values

Extrinsic Motivation

Driven by external rewards — money, status, or approval. Can spark action but rarely sustains fulfillment alone.

e.g. Earning a promotion · Gaining recognition

Root your commitments in intrinsic motivation. Extrinsic rewards may come — but they won’t be what keeps you going.

Commitment One
The most important change I will make
I commit to… Because… I will know I have succeeded when…
Commitment Two
A habit or behavior I will cultivate
I commit to… Because… I will know I have succeeded when…
Commitment Three
A mindset or relationship I will invest in
I commit to… Because… I will know I have succeeded when…

Sign your name below as a promise to yourself

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Part A — My Mission Statement
Build your mission statement

Use your answers from earlier sections to complete each prompt.

I am
who
so that
guided by
My Mission Statement

Fill in the prompts above to see your mission statement take shape…

My final mission statement

Refine it here until every word feels right. Read it aloud.

Part B — My Strategy
My vision (1–3 years)

Paint a vivid picture of your ideal life across the areas that matter most to you.

My top 3 goals (next 90 days)
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Daily habits
Weekly habits
Support & resources (mentors, coaches, books, communities) Potential obstacles & how I will handle them My accountability partner & how we check in
My Accountability Partner

The right accountability partner can double your chances of success. Be specific about what you are asking them to do.

Partner name
How we check in
What I have asked them to do
My Win Wall

A win is anything you did, faced, tried, completed, or felt proud of. Return here whenever you need a reminder of what you are made of.

The win I am most proud of so far How I have grown — what would past me think? How I will celebrate (properly)
Weekly Momentum

Click to rate your momentum each week. Return here regularly.

30-Day Habit Tracker

Name up to 3 habits. Click each day to mark it complete.

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My Top Values

Complete Section 03

My Strengths

Complete Section 04

My Wheel of Life

Complete Section 07

My Mission Statement

Complete Section 12

My Vision

Complete Section 12

My Deep Why

Complete Section 09

My Compass

Complete Section 08

My Three Commitments

Complete Section 11

My 90-Day Goals

Complete Section 12

A Word from Future Me

Complete Section 10

Do not think that what is hard for you to master is humanly impossible; but if a thing is humanly possible, consider it to be within your reach.

Marcus Aurelius — Meditations

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Watch your thoughts, they become words; watch your words, they become actions; watch your actions, they become habits; watch your habits, they become character; watch your character, for it becomes your destiny.

Lao Tzu
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